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Running Away to Get Away

From Adolescence, Crimson Kings, and Poseidon

Terry Barr
6 min readJun 11, 2022
Photo by Patrick Hinz on Unsplash

Most of us get cured of adolescence, though certain former leaders of the free world will never escape its clutches. I like to think I developed immunity to adolescent urges somewhere back in college, but even then I might be giving myself too much credit.

I think about the people I directly hurt all the time, and have reconciled myself to the understanding that they likely won’t ever forget or forgive, though again, I might be giving my own perspective of these memories too much privilege and ego.

Worse, I think, are the people I wronged who didn’t know that I wronged them. Or at least I think and hope they never did. Penance is living with what you’ve done, and I’ve lived a reasonably long life so far.

21st Century Schizoid Man

So think back with me. I was fifteen, a sophomore in high school, doing my best to avoid physical education class, where dressing out in the previous day’s sour clothes and then being forced to wrestle or play 20-on-20 football, basketball, or softball felt like a death sentence.

One of our coaches that year decided that before we did anything else that I hated, we had to run laps around the school. Our high school was a Soviet Union-style block of some brick material with…

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Terry Barr
Terry Barr

Written by Terry Barr

I write about music, culture, equality, and my Alabama past in The Riff, The Memoirist, Prism and Pen, Counter Arts, and am an editor for Plethora of Pop.

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